Things To Do To Seduce Your Man
If you want to get the inside scoop on things to do to seduce your man, you gotta first have two very important character traits: a silly spirit and a crude mind!
My man and I have an amazing sex life, but I would be lying to you if I said that my magic spell over him was cast under the sheets. The way that I have made him a self-proclaimed addict, hooked on our physical intimacy, has everything to do with how I enchant him outside the bedroom. It has everything to do with how I tease him!
Teasing him is my favorite pastime. I do it even when I’m not aware that I’m doing it. In public, in private. Over the phone or in person. It has become something that he expects from me. But it is also something that he claims makes our physical intimacy truly special to him.
So what are the things to do to seduce your man?
Well, first, I don’t inhibit myself. I don’t judge my inner seductress. I don’t act all prude and bashful when in actuality I’m wantin’ my man inside me and lovin’ me right. So, if YOU are timid about teasing your man and are skittish about being a bad girl, but yet reaaalllly want to be his li’l minx, stop listening to the voices in your head that are restricting your body and mind from letting go and getting randy!
Here’s some ways in which I tease my man:
I act like a silly little girl with a very dirty, adult mind and a body for sin, sin, sin. And I do it at the most unassuming, innocent moments:
*He’ll come to the edge of the bed to talk to me about our day’s plans while I’m still in bed, and I’ll just rub his penis with my foot and smirk at him.
*Everytime I ascend the stairs in his house, I’ll get down on all fours on the steps and shake my bum in the air, or I’ll hump the banister. (Sometimes I’ll even lift my dress, expose my rump and moan some “Oh Yeah”s while shakin’ it.)
*I’ll stand up while we are watching television together and take off my panties and just hand them to him without saying a word, my eyes on the TV the whole time.
*I’ll sit on the kitchen counter while he’s cooking and ask him if he’d like to eat something before dinner.
*I’ll lift my skirt while I’m driving and snap a shot of my panties peeking out from between my legs and text it to him…
And the list goes on.
I don’t tease him like it’s some heavy smothering seduction—like I’m some 1940s screen siren or even some a sex symbol in any shape or form. I tease him it like I’m some brat who likes to be a pain in the tush… only to usually end up with my own pain in the tush.
I tease him from a light-hearted, young place inside me that just wants to make my man laugh and shower me with cocked eyebrows and filthy smirks.
And by not taking myself seriously when I seduce, I don’t have to feel nervous that I’m not sexy. If I stumble over the carpet, goof up, fart by mistake while my butt is in the air (yes, I just wrote that), or even end up realizing I have a hunk of spinach between my gums when I was just trying to smile coyly, I can laugh at myself and HE can laugh at me, and there’s never that awkward, shameful moment of some serious-minded seduction gone wrong. (Actually, I usually get him more aroused when I do mess up a seduction, because our mutual laughter, at my expense, makes him feel very close to me!)
So, next time you are with your man, do something unexpected to throw him off and turn him on.
Start randomly fondling with your breasts while he’s talking to you in the bathroom, or lean over him when he’s driving and breathe warm air on the crotch of his pants.
He may look at you a bit startled or like he’s uncomfortable, but even if you think he doesn’t like the attention, I promise you that he definitely does.
Look, there are only so many sex positions and all us women essentially have the same body parts, so if you want to be the best lover of this poor bastard’s entire life, it starts with how you mentally and emotionally seduce, not just the quality of your “sack performance”.
When you can bring some sass and some naughtiness to the ordinary, day-to-day mix, things will never get boring. Not to mention that he will never be able to walk up a flight of stairs again without you and your derriere on his mind.
If you’re truly serious about learning some things to do to seduce your man and hand him over a platter of the best tease he’s ever know, check out my newly created list: